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Offline KlaireBearLexie

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sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« on: March 22, 2012, 11:59:26 PM »
hey

I know I haven't been on here in a while. Its been a busy while and I just want to share a wee thing.


I have been sh free for just over two years and while someday its a battle with my friends/family helping me this battle is slowly getting easier.

I decide to post this after going on Safe TALK which is a suicide awareness training and I was happy to see that they stressed the self harm wasn't always linked to suicide (which I had tried to stress to my friends/family before and felt like i was hitting a brick wall) and because of my past with self harm I know want to help people who feel helpless and have no hope as I recognized that in my life. I am becoming a youth worker and also thinking of working with a suicide/self harm awareness charity as a youth worker but unsure where yet.

My boyfriend of two years and 4 months has been a rock. He's understood my past (a lot of issues from an affair to anxiety) and he loves me despite of it and says it why I am the person I am

Just wanted to encourage those who are trying to no self harm to take each day as a new day and not be hard when you do self harm.

hope this helps

Klaire Bear
"Lifes too short to even care at all,
Im losing my mind, losing my mind, losing control
If I could find a way to see this straight
Id run away
To some fortune that I,
I should have found by now" Young the Giant

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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #1 on: March 23, 2012, 12:40:43 AM »
Great to hear. :) :hug2:
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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2012, 01:00:16 AM »
Woo hoo! You're an inspiration to us all.  Keep on fighting, keep on surviving!
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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #3 on: March 23, 2012, 03:07:44 AM »
  :1054:

 :477::yahooo: :yahooo: :yahooo: :477:

 :1025:  :mademyday:  :1025:

i am so proud of you  :hyper:

 woohoo thats so amazin

truely honestly well done  :party: :birthday cake:  :creature:
no one wants to know
no one cares
those who do want to know,
  want to know so they can use it against me
hurt, pain, anger, destruction, death and hatred, the story of my life
all i hope for is some one i can love trust and believe loves and cares for me and wants whats best for me

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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #4 on: March 23, 2012, 07:36:30 AM »
 ya am like u when i finish my leaving certim going to do youth work to i rely whant to be one because i love working with young kides my age  :yahooo: :rock:

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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #5 on: March 24, 2012, 01:36:11 AM »
Well done  :1059:
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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #6 on: March 25, 2012, 09:38:02 PM »
cheers. its weird the last few years have paned out. about to graduate in 2 months time (i was oringally never meant to go to uni coz i didnt think i was smart enough) but I've managed it some how
"Lifes too short to even care at all,
Im losing my mind, losing my mind, losing control
If I could find a way to see this straight
Id run away
To some fortune that I,
I should have found by now" Young the Giant

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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #7 on: March 26, 2012, 09:29:34 PM »
thats great i would love to be like u  :1059:

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Re: sh free for 2 years and slowly getting better
« Reply #8 on: April 04, 2012, 08:22:56 PM »
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Well done you! that is something to be very very proud of.

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