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« Reply #20 on: June 01, 2011, 06:54:09 PM »

You sound like a great dad who has come through a lot to build a better life.

I only once heard my dad tell me he loved me, and I was 28 at the time.

I clearly remember hearing my then 5 year old niece telling my sister she loved her, it blew me away, my niece is 19 now and that memory is still with me.
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Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying,
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« Reply #21 on: June 01, 2011, 10:07:41 PM »

Oooooops Billy .. blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing that's a slap on the face to me .. presumption presumption ..not good in life .. sorry Billy

Your Dad is still missing out 
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« Reply #22 on: June 01, 2011, 10:14:12 PM »

Nightowl - ..we all should show are feeling more ... and we all come through own our traumas in life and will no doubt have more to come ... its life ..and its good and bad .. easy and hard ...
Saying something is easy ..its meaning it and living it that the hard part ...
I'm sure you will have had many people tell you that they love you ...

Thanks again for the nice words

Dad loves his daughter X   
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« Reply #23 on: June 02, 2011, 03:54:57 AM »

 littlehug1 no problem easy mistake 2 make.

Hows your daugther doing?

How r u?
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« Reply #24 on: June 02, 2011, 05:57:18 AM »

My daughter is OK ... she has a meeting at WISH in Harrow ..which I never knew existed  ... funny how these things make you look at life differently ... and make you realise that life is hard for so many people .
 

I firmly believe that we all must look at the positives ...

We have caught this early in her life ...++++
We can (if she wants) talk openly about things now with us ...++++
She does not feel that we are judging her for doing what she is doing ...++++
She knows we all love her and value her for who she ... ++++


The reasons for her SH are important , but not the most important thing .
The most important thing is that she feels she has the security and knowledge that we are there for her always , no matter what .

How are you doing Billy ?

Dad loves his daughter X

   
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« Reply #25 on: June 02, 2011, 06:42:52 AM »

her been able to openly talk about these things with her family is incredibly important if i didnt have this option i would have lost it long ago so your definitly doing right by her :)good luck for her meeting Smiley
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« Reply #26 on: June 02, 2011, 01:28:52 PM »

i hope her meeting goes well first meets can be heard and triggering, but can also be very help full.

Its good u can see the postives, it will be a tough road for u and her but together i belive u can get there.

Im not to good today
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"remember when we were YOUNG and couldn't wait to grow up? ...WOW, what the hell were we thinking!?!?"
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« Reply #27 on: June 07, 2011, 01:03:27 PM »

Just a quick note to you all to say my daughter is doing well ..
Not SH for two weeks , and coping well ( so we are told )
We are keeping very good lines of communication between all .... School .. WISH ....her siblings .. her Mum .. and myself ..
She seems to be brighter and happier, both at school and at home ..but we are all well aware that things have a habit of changing like the British Weather ... so we are never complacent .

I would again like to thanks this site and all the people that have posted , it is a great help to have a sounding board and be able to gain advice and information from others in the same situation

Respect to you all

Dad loves his daughter X
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« Reply #28 on: June 07, 2011, 07:44:30 PM »

 littlehug1 respect to ur daughter she is doing very well.  littlehug1
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« Reply #29 on: June 11, 2011, 04:23:00 PM »

Hi, have been in your situation for many years now and know how heartbreaking and stressful it is. The most important thing is that you love and support her no matter what and that she trusts and loves you.

Good luck to you all,

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