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« on: August 03, 2017, 08:46:59 PM »
Am so overwhelmed the now with emotions and memories, it's like someones stabbed me through the chest all over again and I don't know how to fix it, it hurts so much, like am getting crushed from the inside and I don't know what to do,

To be honest I don't know if it's just better going back to not feeling anything

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« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2017, 10:07:32 PM »
I don't think that either is very good. Do you have any support?
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« Reply #2 on: August 03, 2017, 11:36:56 PM »
I had my step mum for a bit but that got complicated, we just fall out a lot and I feel venerable letting her in, I tried counsellors to, but talking to a stranger face to face didn't feel right, when I was sitting opposite them I just shut down completely, I really though I was doing ok but I feel so far away

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« Reply #3 on: August 04, 2017, 07:57:09 AM »
Bless you. Is there anyone else you could possibly reach out to? You are not in a good place and that is worrying
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« Reply #4 on: August 04, 2017, 10:34:22 PM »
Not that I know of, thanks for ur replies by the way, really makes a difference, I've been six months clean so far so that's good  :icon_mrgreen: , holding onto that,

I just really thought I was out of this, I know I can get out of it but I didn't realise how far I fell back, but only way is forward, right ;)

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« Reply #5 on: August 05, 2017, 07:57:48 AM »
6 months is a good whacknof time and is something to be quite pleased with. I am happy you are able to hold onto that. What your currently going through is a blip. You will get through it.
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« Reply #6 on: August 09, 2017, 07:15:02 PM »
you think? I've been going through it for the past seven years, it just feels like am not even in reality, I don't mean to moan but am falling apart here

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« Reply #7 on: August 09, 2017, 08:44:47 PM »
If you look at it as a blip then you don't feel like a complete failure. At least that is what I was taught. It does sound difficult for you. I am sorry that you are going through this.s
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« Reply #8 on: September 13, 2017, 11:09:35 PM »
Hi Tucan,

Seven months free :) , just wanted to say thank u for helping me out, I've got a better hang on my emotions, just accepting them now, they are what they are, there confusing and strong but got to keep the head above water so decided to change the way I think, trying to be optimistic, been talking about my self a lot and was also wondering how u are, if u want to talk or anything am not bad at listening,

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« Reply #9 on: September 14, 2017, 09:01:36 AM »
That is fantastic news chick. Happy you are feeling better.
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